Friday, July 6, 2007

I hate money

Moving and closing dates and putting money down is not fun. I hate being stressed out about money! This month in limbo thing is killing me. I come home from having dinner with a dear friend from high school, and my husband is down in the dumps, which does not happen often. So I'm worried, ask him what's wrong. He says he feels bad that he has to have his wife live in him mom's basement. He feels like I am trying to avoid coming there after work at all costs (ding ding ding, we have a winner!), he's worried about putting the rest of the down payment down on July 31st. We are scrapping every penny to make it, by the way, so that stress does not make for a fun time.

I just hate that we are at the tail end of our first year of marriage, and we have had to be so high stress for the past 4 months! I know it will all be worth it in the end, and moving into that beautiful home August 1st will be a dream come true, but for now, I want my happy marriage back!
I guess having to exist together, with 2 dogs, in a basement, is not conducive to happiness..
I'm taking deep breaths in and out, living each day as it comes, and PRAYING, a lot.

3 comments:

Marriage-101 said...

This too shall pass. And when you're in your new home, you won't even think about this sucky transition time. And don't feel like you guys are the only ones that need to do this. My cousins are in the exact same situation. Except they'll be living in her parents basement and no dogs.

Kerry said...

This will be a time you can look back and say "we made it!" and laugh (hopefully :) August 1st is just around the corner!

kristi said...

i feel for ya! it'll be over soon!

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